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Michelle Taylor ([personal profile] chess) wrote in [personal profile] philmophlegm 2013-08-19 05:35 pm (UTC)

Has that happened to you?

I know there's a bad connection with the 'prizes for effort' thing where no-one values the 'prize for effort' because they know it's a shorthand for 'and lack of success', but if there are no 'prizes for success' then I'd expect that to be less of an issue.

Generally the things I am good at are things I find intrinsically rewarding, so getting praised for them is meaningless chatter, rather than something I value.

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